Satisfying Sex requires Self Worth

Men and women play a funny game when it comes to sex and I'm not sure either side really understands it. We have no idea who created it, we don't even have a good reason for playing it. Yet, we seem to engage in it all the same and the outcome is a lot of women who feel men are only interested in lying to, or tricking them to "get some" and men who feel like nothing they have to give us as women is appreciated or respected.

This isn't working.

It stuns me how many girls and women are still trying to find their worth through giving their bodies to men. For many women, sex isn't even enjoyable, it's simply something they agree to because they think of it as some sort of an exchange. I give you my body, you give me a moment of feeling acceptable. That is never going to work and in truth, it feeds a vicious circle. Every time you give yourself to anyone in the hopes of receiving a boost to your self worth, you are in reality feeding that self worth to an insatiable beast that will never be satisfied and in the end, leave you desolate.

If you want a man to validate you as a human being or are in search for the mythical Prince Charming who will heal all that ails you, I am begging you to stop... right now.

It's a wonderful fairy tale, the "Prince" that loves you unlike anyone has ever loved you and sees all the beauty of your soul, and as life beats and batters us and we grow more and more tired, the idea of finding this man who'll "complete" us becomes more and more desirable even as we believe in it less and less. The irony of course is that